What are the modern manners for sending Xmas cards? After how many years of not receiving a card back, should we cross a name off our list? And is it becoming a dying art? As overheard in a cafe: “Do you send cards?”. “Only to my gran. She still expects to get one.” Bless, a card sent for the benefit of the recipient. It’s a rarity. Because as with Xmas presents it’s less about what they would like to receive, and more about what you want....